Hi I just found this site. I am a 47 year old mother to a 4 year old very active boy. I never had children before him due to my husbands problem. We were married 21 years before we adopted Sam. He was 2 days old when we got him. I have to admit it has been the most joyous thing we have ever done and one of the hardest now that he is so active. I live in NC with my DH Jeff.