My child is an only child and she sometimes is used to having things "just so." She is anal retentive and used to doing things her own way. Extremely chatty, moody or hyper kids tend to make her nervous. She is low key and just looking to meet some other local kids who like roller skating or other activities once and awhile. Most of her friends have siblings and activities planned every night. I don't believe in "over" extending my child with too many planned activities. I want her to enjoy playing and being a child.
Perhaps another group could help you with this. Good luck.