I also just joined "raising them" because I saw a post for this group. I am not a parent yet, but hope to be soon. How to raise our children "religiously" is something we are working on. I am agnostic and my husband is christian, but with no particular affliation. I love the community that a church has, but have a very hard time with the customs. Does anyone belong to or know of any community groups without religous background.
Unitarian Universalists would be a great community for you to join. I have never been to a meeting because my husband and I haven't, but it is an all encompassing collection of faiths. You could believe in whatever and still have the community. Welcome to the group! I look forward to getting to know you.