Hi Ladies I'm Judy, I have a daughter who is 3.5 years old. I did not plan on having an only child.. my first son passed away and having the two children by c-section I have had so much trouble getting back to myself (physically & hormonally) and now my husband and I are not in financial shape to have another Eithr I would have loved to have a sibling for her but i really feel its too late!