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Hello, everyone find myself debating rather if I should allow father come from England to stay in August for two weeks......Brief history of our past that he moved from England to USA to be with me and we suppose to get marry..I started to see him to put family/friends in particular sister that lives 45mins.away that lives in studio with her boyfriend before me....
He decided to return to England b/c tourism VISA running out and explain we will continue work on our relationship...He informed me, "he not coming back to USA" after I heard that he might as move on...when I was 4mos.pregnant I call him that "we having girl"He tell me he seeing someone"I was very crushed b/c this man wanting make life with...
Secondly,his sister constantly interfering in our relationship ..Major problem is he always allowing his sister to know our personal business...She has not picked up phone to check on her neice or bother call me.......I allow this female come into my home spend night while her brother was here ,becasue she asked him instead me. I supply her clothes sleep in plus private room and cooked,,,,,All she talked about they never had dog in their house(chihuahua).
Father never seen nearly 5mo. daughter wasn't present for her birth......I explain to him that I needed car seat bring baby home from hospital...When he showed up in Feb. stay with his friends I did not allow him see baby...He refused to sign birth certificate....I have been trying conceive a child almost 10yrs met this guy thought he was the one......... |
| Posted by A on 06/13/2007 07:22 PM
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I called him to ask for money to help with daughter.He reply that he call sister live near me........I told him do not bother...
Oh yeah, he told me sister do not have call house.......Blood thicker than water.He not going give up his family for me,,,,,
I offered bring daughter to England for visit ,b/c do not wait around here for him visit prefer schedule my vacation instead......I file child support |
| posted by A on 06/13/2007 07:30 PM
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IT DOESNT SEEM LIKE HE WANTS TO BE IN HIS DAUGHTER'S LIFE BELIEVE ME I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING. I WOULD'NT LET HIM SPEND THE NIGHT..IF HE WANTS TO SEE HIS DAUGHTER THEN HE CAN VISIT WITH HER WHILE HE'S IN TOWN, BUT I WOULD NOT LET HIM SPEND THE NIGHT. YOUR DAUGHTER MAY BE ESTATIC ABOUT THE IDEA BUT FROM ONE MOM TO ANOTHER NO WAY.... |
| posted by jodi on 06/14/2007 02:34 PM
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| The only reason going to allow him to stay b/c give me much needed break and he experience taking care of her.....(.He currently living in England..) I still want to be family only way that happen he needs to seek counseling.......Also, stop involving everyone else in our personal affairs......His sister lives 45mins away he could always take bus over in day time .......Oh yeah this same sister not going allow him stay in her studio......She lives with her boyfriend not even have room for her parents if they wanted to visit.......I should not have hold off my plans for the summer to accomodate him. |
| posted by A on 06/14/2007 06:26 PM
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| It's not my responsibility to make accomodation for him............He only sent $370.00 entire time....I have spent more than $5,000 care of my daughter..food,clothing,,,medical,etc.......procedure cost me $15,000 at least insurance cover most that cost nearly $30,000 |
| posted by A on 06/14/2007 06:32 PM
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Update
I repeatly asked him could be possible bring his daughter to England but never recieve positive responds.. He replied he has no crib or planning to move .He could always give up his bed so decided to e-mail explain since never received ans. I have decided to go away during summer ....I will spend time with my family for him not waste money or buy ticket come US............last comment still waiting on clothes suppose brought last year also where the financial support........These non custodian parent do not realize child needs food,shelter,clothing, child care etc......... |
| posted by A on 06/18/2007 06:41 PM
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| I would not let him stay the night. If his sister lives that close then he should stay with her or get a hotal. He may have other plans than to just visit your daughter. My ex-husband took off with my son and I had to fight to get him back. What makes you so sure that he would not take your daughter in the middle of the night and take her back to England. It would be kidnapping but do you thank he might try it? I would play it safe and just let him see her during the day. |
| posted by Amy on 06/25/2007 12:30 AM
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I decided not to allow him stay over my house for several reasons...
1.He has done nothing for her only sent $370.00 entire time
2.He keep telling me ,he will be here in August talk about our future
3.I saw him last Monday on personal site
4.He cannot be father living far away......If only put that effort find work in USA
5.I offer bring her England never gave me answer...........I decide to visit relatives& enjoy my summer 2mos.off
6.I will stay strong my priorities my daughter
7.I am slowly getting my life together
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| posted by A on 06/25/2007 12:50 AM
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18th June 2007?
I saw him on singles site
A girl replied saying it's nice speak someone not into games..........I sent her message about Deadbeat have daughter done nothing for her.........
I cannot put sooooooo much energy into person going to put in father hands(GOD) move forward allow myself be happy
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| posted by A on 06/25/2007 12:56 AM
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