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| Im sorry but i've been keeping this in for a while nowand im tried of it im so mad at my babys daddy he sucks as a husband and as a father he was so happy to have his son hurry up and get here will he is here now and he dont want nothing to do with him he drinks and plays his xboxs 360 and doesnt go to bed until 9am and sleeps all day long until 6pm to get up to go to work he doesnt help with any of the house hold things like cleaning, making dinner, cleaning up after dinner, feeding our son or changing his diaper he wont change a dirty diaper, he wont help give him a bath or help wash clothes he does nothing unless it has to do with drinking his beer or playing his xbox360 other then that dont bother talking or trying to get him to help with the baby n-e-w i just wanted to get that off my back |
| Posted by Nicole on 12/10/2008 05:55 PM
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| Oh my gosh, did you marry my ex-husband? :) This sounds EXACTLY what happened to me right after my son was born. My ex would stay up all night playing video games, sleep on the couch the next day, say he was going to AA meetings when he was actually out drinking/smoking pot/who-knows what all the while I am being a single mom. We had to have fertility treatments and prayed so hard for our son, he was wonderful throughout the pregnancy then the night I went into the hospital to be induced, he changed. It was like he was no longer the center of my attention and was jealous of the baby. He said that he was having "dark thoughts" and "was afraid he was going to hurt the baby". He wouldn't even hold him. We got into 3 fights (all over him not helping out) each time he would leave and disappear for a few days (he was out binging on booze). The last time, the day after Christmas 2006 (my son was 5 months old) he got onto a plane and flew back to his mom and never even looked at my son before he left. The divorce was fast and was easy because he was no longer the man I loved, no longer the man I married, no longer the man I wanted to influence my son. He has court ordered supervised visitation only and I have full custody. These guys will never change and it will only get worse. If you want to email me, I can help you any way I can. I know it was the hardest time in my life that I will ever have to go through, and I couldn't have made it without my famly & friends. Do you have anyone close nearby you? I am so sorry you have to go through this as well. Stay strong and remember, you don't need him to be the best mommy to your little boy. Good luck ~ |
| posted by Cooper's Mommy on 12/10/2008 08:38 PM
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| hey yea i have friends and family near by and i have talk to them about all of this and they told me to hold my tongue and wait it out for a while they are trying to get me a place for me and my son the bad part is i dont have a car so im stuck trying to find a ride away from the house im stuck in the house all the time no money all my friends work and then they want to hang out on the weekend only and i cant its crazy n-e-w my e-mail is lil_angel_6us@yahoo.com if you want to talk more |
| posted by Nicole on 12/10/2008 09:35 PM
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