I'm a caregiver for the elderly. What I do is put my daughter down to sleep at like 7:45pm. I nurse too. Since she was about 6 months I stopped nursing her in the middle of the night so this works for me. I then go to an overnight job where I allow the husband to sleep while I watch the elderly wife. I start at like 9:30pm and get off at 7am. I'm home by 7:30am for when my daughter gets up. Tough on sleep those two nights a week I work, but it's decent money, and she doens't loose out on time with mommy. Call a local elderly caregiver service. They have work hours available 24/7. You can work even 2 hour shifts. Works for me