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| MY FIANCE'S FRIEND IS STAYING WITH US WITH HIS BIG DOG. HE HAS KNOWN HIM FOR 15 YRS. ANYWAYS, THIS GUY IS SUPOSSED TO GIVE US 300 A MONTH FOR RENT. WE ASSKED HIM FOR PART OF THE RENT EARLY AS WE HAVE NO MONEY. HIS DEBIT CARD WAS LOST AND HE WAS WAITING DFOR A NEW ONE. HE SAID HE CAN GO INSIDE AND WITHDRAW MONEY BUT WONT. HE WANTS TO WAIT FOR HIS DEBIT CARD TO COME IN 'SOMETIME SOON'. WE HAVE NO MONEY HE KNOWS IT, AND HE WONT GO TO THE BANK AND WITHDRAW. HIS DOG HAS DESTROYED OUR BACKYARD. HE POOPS EVERYWHERE AND HAS DUG MANY MANY HOLES AND IS BEGINNING TO CHEW OFF THE ROPE LADDER ON MY TODDLERS SWINGSET. SHE CANT PLAY BACK THERE CAUSE OF THE DOG AND THIS ASSHOLE WONT CLEAN IT. HE WORKS 12HR MIDNIGHT SHIFTS AND SAYS HE IS TOO TIRED WHEN HE COMES HOME TO CLEAN IT EVERYDAY. MY FIANCE LOST HIS JOB AND SO WE NEED THE MONEY FORM THIS ASSHOLE BUT IM BEGINNING TO THINK THAT IT AINT WORTH IT. MY FIANCE HAS LOOKED FOR WORK AND CANT FIND NOEN AND NEITHER CAN I. |
| Posted by ERIN on 11/29/2008 10:38 AM
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| get a life get off the pot and do something for your self misery will get you no where do some volunteer work look around you what do you want want out of your life kick both of them out and start a clean slate been there many timee |
| posted by greg on 11/29/2008 10:46 AM
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| You should kick your roommate out! He is giving you excuses about the rent, does not clean up after his dog, and his dog has damaged property. As for your husband, he should go job-hunting everyday and he will find work. My Mother-in-law lives in Florida and she told me that there are jobs available. I hope the best of luck to you and keep me posted. |
| posted by Monica on 11/29/2008 02:31 PM
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Next time you invite someone into your house, get it in WRITING! Get the money UP FRONT! I don't care how long you have known the guy.
My husband's friend just recently lost his home, his job, and wanted a place to stay until he could get back on his feet. I said absolutely NOT!
My concern was my kids, and how long this "freeloader" was going to stay with us. When I told his friend, it would have to be in writing, and I wanted a copy of his bank account, he some how no longer wanted to stay with us. Imagine That! |
| posted by esther on 11/29/2008 02:59 PM
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| Can we keep our topics or titles clean without foul language? Most have kids and when the email page is up, it is inappropriate for them to see that. Save the words for the actual post. Just my opionion! |
| posted by Teri on 11/29/2008 03:57 PM
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Tell him he is going to clean that backyard, put his dog on a lead, repair the damage he and his dog has done and give you rent or he can get the hell out. As simple as that it is your house not his it is time you take it back. Had the same problems last year and I told our roommate the same thing. Pissed him off, but he did what he was told or he was out on the street.
As for jobs, look for one everyday. Look at everything apply for everything. A job is a job and in these times beggars can't be choosers. Even if he or you would hate the job you are just going to have to take it, until a better opportunity arises. |
| posted by Alisa on 11/29/2008 08:54 PM
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| I would personally go and get a job myself and then after I got my first check kick his azz out!!! |
| posted by Lexi on 11/30/2008 11:32 AM
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I agree w/ the previous poster.
Erin, I have read a couple of posts from you, stating that you cant find work and your fiance was laid off.. I know it might not be ideal, but if you need a job, anyone can get a job at a fast food place, or convenience/retail store. Im sure one of you would be able to find work if you were really out there everyday searching and filling out applications.
I was told that "Looking for a job IS a full time job". If you are just looking through the paper at jobs and being picky about whats in there, of course you wont find anything.
As for the "roommate" I would tell him either he follows the rules of the house or he can leave. I guess thats a sticky situation b/c you need the $ that he is 'supposed' to be giving you. He is your only source of income.. so you either deal w/ it for the money, or make him leave, and have no money. |
| posted by Amy on 11/30/2008 12:48 PM
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Amy, I agree with you. I could not have said it better myself.
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| posted by Monica on 12/01/2008 02:41 PM
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