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Hi everybody, I am a single mother of 4 small children. I have a son who will be 5 in January, a daugther who will be 4 in February, and 2 yr old twins.
They all have the same father/ (i know someone would be curious about that) We werent together during my pregnancy with our first son b/c I didnt want to be with him just b/c I got pregnant by him, but after our son was born is when I fell in love w/ his father. So, long story short, I always suspected he was cheating, but he always had a story about what was going on and although I didnt believe the stories, I wanted to keep my family together. We split a couple of times, and every time he would tell me that he loves me and cant live without me, etc, and I would take him back and then it would be the same old shit. So I finally left him for good 9 months ago..we have still been seeing eachother and ocassionally having sex, but I have put a stop to that, b/c it interferes in what Im doing. I have told him we are not together and cant be together due to specific things (trust issues, disrespect issues, him lying etc) but if I keep doing things with him and having sex w/ him, he thinks everything is ok and we are gonna get back together. I have stopped doing that, and unfortunately if he doesnt get what he wants it affects my child support and him seeing the kids.. so it looks like I'll be heading to court soon.
Thanks for reading... i look forward to talking to other single parents going through similar things. |
| Posted by Amy on 11/24/2008 04:06 PM
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| Hey Amy, welcome! It sounds like you are a strong woman who knows what is best for her children and what type of relationship you deserve. I don't know how you handle that many little ones....I only have 1 and most days I am completely overwhemled! |
| posted by Abbey on 11/24/2008 04:17 PM
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