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| Okay I am extremley frustrated right now!!!! We have been trying to plan a non work vacation for a year now and it has yet to happen. Is seems impossible to plan anything with his uncertain schedule. We live in northern CA and I only want to go to Disneyland in L.A, it shouldn't be this hard. We were planning to go in December, which is in a few weeks so I asked today when he called and he got frustrated because he has shows but he's not exactly sure of the dates. I understand this but I am always in charge of planning everything we do EVER which I can't stand, but now I will only have a week or so to do it in. Does he not realize I have work too and I have to give my boss notice. It's just so frustrating. We never can plan any special things to do as a couple. The only time we have been away together is when I visit him on tour. I guess I am just having a bad day, he's on a three week tour and i'm sick so everything is upseting me. I need to vent to someone and no one I know could possibly understand this issue. Sometimes I get tired of being strong and understanding. I want to be a brat once in awhile, does anyone feel the same? |
| Posted by Ashley on 11/16/2008 04:49 PM
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| I totally hear you. My husband and I have planned vacations in the past. Once we set our plans up, he tells the other guys and management to avoid that week for tours. Some of the other guys in the band have done the same. Still, there have been times when we've missed out of trips with family and friends because shows are already booked. It's tough to plan. I am a teacher...so I can only go away certain weeks of the year too. This is good and bad. Good because we know what windows of time are available to vacation. Bad because if those times won't work, then we can't go away. In the end, we try to make my visits on tour as much about us as possible...dinners out just the two of us...hotel rooms on over nights...etc. No doubt it is frustrating. We are about to have a son, and family vacations will come up. We'll make it work..and I'm sure you will too :-) Good luck! |
| posted by Dawn on 11/16/2008 07:02 PM
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| Thanks : ) I am a teacher also! You are right about enjoying small things like dinners out ect... it's hard sometimes but we love them and it's all worth it. Congrtats on you growing family, take care |
| posted by Ashley on 11/16/2008 08:43 PM
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