Hi, I'm a step mom to 3 adult children and now my babies are having babies. I want to have a grandmother-like relationship with their kids. I don't have kids of my own, but want to be loved unconditionally like a mom is.
Welcome Patty, I think what you want is wonderful and possiable. My parents divorced when I was a small child ( 4 years old.) I have a wonderful relationship with both my step parents. Actually my father died 12 years ago this January and I still talk to my step mom at least once a month if not more. My Kids call her grandma. My stepfather is the only grandfather my children know, and they love him very dearly. Best of luck and enjoy your grandchildren.