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I just cant hold this in any longer.I have been currently on a different site forum w a few women from the state where I live.There was a special room where you could vent out and complain about anything that you wanted and I complained what a dick my hubby was and could be several times.I told too much I guess; cause then they came up w that I should leave him and not try and get him into counseling and they gave me several places in the state ,I could go.I informed them that we were going to try and work it out and hes been under stress blah balh blah.Well a few of the women claimed that they never argue in front of their kids and they never fight w their spouse, blah blah balh.And that if I cont. to stay in a relationship like that ;then I need to lose my kids.Then the forum leader pmed me and told me alot of sites to call and get ahold of and told me that if I didnt leave my hubby then shed get w all the women and theyd vote to call on me.My hubby and I argue when the kids are at school mostly and we argue over discipline and money.Every flippin couple does.We dont hit our kids we ground them and take stuff away.We dont drink smoke or do drugs.A few days later she writes and tells me that a few of the women on the site dont want me to write about my problems anymore and better yet ;itd be best if I took a break or just left the site altogether cause she knows i belong to a diff site.She didnt even ask me if that was okay ,but removed my access to any forum or mail privledge.Then she lied and told the forum that I quit.I couldnt get ahold of anyone t prove what she said or did.Then she pms me and tell s me 2 of the ppl that said they didnt want me there and when i told her that they needed to clean up their own fkg back yards and a few items on why;she copied and pasted it back to them and the entire board.She didnt tell them that she informed me of them ,just that I was 2 faced and back stabbing them for no reason.I am soooooooo pissed off about her and theres nuthin I can do.A girl copied and posted me what she said about me on the forum today or I wouldnt even know that much.I thought those ppl were my friends but turns out you cant trust anyone in this fkg place.It makes me more home sick then I have ever been!I am not 2faced nor am I back stabbing.I have shit I know about ppl that Ill die with unless they screw me over first.I tell it like it is and I dont lie.I dont sugar coat nuthin.A few of you know that about me.Ive been here for over 1 yr now.I cried for 2 weeks cause of this shit and now I find this out and it makes it worse!!!
I forgot 1 thing.The leader of that forum also went to a couple of the ppl that I talked to on the phone and 1 that had been to my house and asked how I lived what was I like and what my kids act like and etc.Of all the flippin nerve!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Posted by Lexi on 11/05/2008 02:34 PM
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| wow...thats horrible...the point of these sites is to help each other out. All couples fight...my husband and I used to fight almost every day ...thanks to my lovely pregnancy and stress hormones. We still fight at least once a week--mainly his lack of helping me, because I'm tired from staying up with an infant, my in-laws, etc. Fighting is normally and a part of wanting to help out your marriage and make sure things are going ok with your life. We all tend to make things worse than they are when we're upset....Forget those women--live your life the way you want and continue to work things out with your hubby...its worth it-They aren't. |
| posted by on 11/05/2008 02:42 PM
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| posted by April on 11/05/2008 03:57 PM
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that is definitely a bunch of bizzy bodies who are going to far.. I cant help but wonder though.. has your hubby ever hit you? Anyway back to the orig conversation... tell me what do you care who thinks s--t about you? life is to Fking short... these peope e arent any importance to you if they are to busy judging you instead of being a GF...and the ones who come to your house to annouce to the others your situation, shouldnt have that welcome in your home.. talk about headaches......Just to let you know.. Me and my hubby fight over money,sex and kids.. sometimes we have personality clashes.. he never hits me but he can verbally bite.. sometimes when he verbally bites to hard I want out of this marriage but I dont want to go through that again so I stay and make it work.. after sometime we make up.. we have lots of love just lack in communication.. we both know this.. we try to work on it but its hard to communicate with NY slang in the house and Mississippi redneck slang....
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| posted by ellen on 11/05/2008 05:05 PM
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| PS.. April you are on the money!!! |
| posted by ellen on 11/05/2008 05:06 PM
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| First of all- they can't do anything to you! And, dont let them bother you so much. They just seem way too nosey and obviously need to get a life if all they can do is investigate yours! Wow! That really sucks that you got caught up in all of that drama with these people! If you really are trying your best to work it out with your husband, then who cares what they say?! I can't believe they would tell you to leave him, especially not knowing the details of the situation. They sound dumb and immature. I would try to let it go. |
| posted by Lisa on 11/05/2008 08:34 PM
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| Every marriage has its rocky points, and any woman who tells you otherwise is a liar!! If things are not going well regularly with your husband, perhaps it's time to consider some marriage counseling? My husband and I have gone preemptively, and it has really helped us communicate without attacking each other so much. It is unfortunate that you were subjected to these other women's insanity, especially on a website designed to help you. Stick with raisingthem.com! |
| posted by Katie on 11/05/2008 10:36 PM
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Those women were WAY out of line! It is one thing to disagree with you about some things, but to imply that you should have your kids taken away! UGH. That is why I like this site. You can say what you want and if people disagree with you they either don't post a reply or they do it nicely (most of the time).
Never let anyone tell you that their marriage is perfect. There is no such thing. We all fight; I have disagreements with my husband about money, sex, all sorts of things. It happens. You fight, make up and move on. The important thing is you love your husband and kids and would do anything for them. Who cares what anyone else thinks? |
| posted by Katie on 11/09/2008 10:41 AM
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