Hi Sarah, welcome to the group. I am pretty new here too. My name is Laura and I have a 6 year old spirited son. When did you realize she was spirited? Have you read the book "Raising your Spirited Child"? Did it help you deal with her better?
Hello! My daughter Madelyn was always ahead of the game since she was born and all was great. There was no terrible twos, nothing but when she turned four and I had her sister it was like a dif. Child! I only realized that there was a name for it when I started reading books about my second daughter who is a very high need baby. I am not positive I read that exact book but I have read quite a few on high need children!