I am going through the exact same thing here in Racine, WI. The guy's a jerk but now that he found out even if he signs over his Parental Rights he'll have to pay child support, he wants to fight for 50% custody. I'll be breast feeding and I'm scared to death he'll be able to take my child from me over night the first year. I retained a lawyer today that I'm told is one of the best. I realize I'll be spending a small fortune that I currently do not have, but I think it's worth it in the long run. I too have the Forward card to help with what my insurance does not cover and in WI, the case is automatically referred to Child Support to open a case file. This can be a good thing for us. By having the case at child Support before we deliver, Child Support will take care of setting up the Paternity and ensure that the father complies with the test. -Freakin out too!