My name is Julie and I am new to mom groups in general. I came across this website in hopes to find some peace of mind with raising two child under the age of 2. We are excited and terrified with expansion of our family. We have an 18th month old who if full of energy and loves the spotlight, and I worried that his heart will get broken once the new baby comes into play in November 2008. Any words of wisdom on how to balance and newborn and a 22 month old is greatly appreciated!