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| will I am about to make a career change from running a home day care center . to work with the kindergarten class at my childerns school . which is a private school so you know they are not throwning the big bucks at me. But a great tution break ( which can continue through high school and college) with a salary.Anyway my husband was ALL for it stating we can make it work money wise. And I do plan on doing after care as well as working a couple week durning the summer. which I am doing day care now for the summer . So I pull my load. Well today after checking through the house to see what we already have in mean of back to school supplies . I went to the DOLLAR store to get the rest(.a total of $21.00.) I came home and he went off . Telling me don't I understand we don't have the money and we do I'm still bring in $400 a week. Telling me to take his name off the checking account and say's he needs to just get out of here.( At time I feel like holden the door open for him ). Mean while I'm thinking all of this over $21.00 . what happen to things are going to be just fine , we are ahead of the game. Now I'm second guessing myself , Thanks I needed that off my chest :) |
| Posted by Patricia on 07/15/2008 05:22 PM
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| does he buy anything for himself? beer, cigarettes, movies? You bought stuff for the children for school.... sometimes you need to open their eyes in that way... good luck i swear sometimes men pms more than we do at the oddest times. |
| posted by Kristhal on 07/16/2008 02:30 PM
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| I don't think it has anything to do with you. It has to do with him, and the financial pressures which may be surrounding him. Don't take it seriously, unless there are existing marital problems. Lets face it, we are heading toward a depression, if we aren't in one already. Money is tight everywhere. Don't beat yourself up. I spend things on myself, as well as my husband. Don't harp on it, you'll end up second guessing yourself. $21.00 is not going to make or break you. |
| posted by esther on 07/16/2008 02:49 PM
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| I'm sorry you had to experience that. Give him a chance to cool down and ask him where this is coming from.Marriage is a partnership. If he has financial concerns which have arisen since your career move, it should probably be addressed. Two heads are better than one. I know with my husband I have to pull teeth just to get him to open up. If I over stepped my bounds ignore my suggestions. Take care though. |
| posted by Octavia on 07/17/2008 09:47 AM
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| I thank you Octavia... in NO way did you over step any bounds. I join this group to open up to and ask others for advise. And I'm never let down. Thanks ladies :) |
| posted by Patricia on 07/17/2008 03:20 PM
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