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| I was so angry over the weekened. We went to my mother-inlaws. ( my mother in-law finds something to bitch about that "I DO WRONG" with my step-son or my daughter (usually my step son) in her eyes and yells at my husband about how I have to change. I told my husband about a month ago I refuse to do anything with his family until his mother stops. Finally I talked to mother in-law and she thinks my children should have NO rules what so ever. She has had control over my husband since we met. Anyways we were over there house this weekened and I was thankful my stepson wasn't with us that way I don't have to "hear" about what I did wrong. My husbands parents built a house up the road from us on a huge hill. I was in a head-on collusion when I was pregnant. My body was pretty messed up. My leg and back are still very painful. Going to my mother in-laws I get in alot of pain because I have to climb a huge hill to go into there back yard. It's insane. I hate there yard. Well, I made it up the hill and my daughter had to be changed about 3 hours later. I asked my husband to help me go down the hill. He started yelling and screaming infront of everyone saying I am lazy and that I need to do everything by myself. That set me off and I was yelling and screaming at him. By that point I told him I wanted to go home. I knew it was going to come back from his mother wanting to be in control of us. When I get to their house I only go up and down the hill one time because I'll get stuck on the couch the rest of the night. He knows that he needs to help me when we get over there. For some reason which I still don't know what was stuck up his ass. Later that day, we had a bomb fire. over there. Everything was going fine. And I asked for help again. He said I was lazy again and do it myself. I was yelling at him that I couldn't believe he was calling ME lazy. I do everything around the house and talking my stepson to his mothers. My husband doesn't do A DAMN thing but site and watch tv or play on the computer. I asked him yesturday if he could vaccum because I was really sore. He said we will see. It never got done. He left this food chopper in the sink for about a week and yells because I didn't clean it and theres mold all over it. I told him the dishes that he sits in the sink are staying in there until he puts them in the dishwasher. He was yelling about never having clean clothes. I do 3 or 4 loads of laundry a day.and put it all away. He just makes me so angry. I have a clean house and as soon as my step-son and him come home my house looks like a tornado hit it. It really does. After I spent 4 hours cleaning I have to re-clean it all over again. I finally lost it last night. I told him he needs to wake up with the kids for a day and let me sleep. I feel like I haven't slept at all in the past 1 1/2 years. I am so tired and my husband will not help. I feel like I am a single parent all the time. I do the punishments for the kids. I do everything. I am so tired.... |
| Posted by Kris on 05/27/2008 08:15 AM
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| Ummm did you tell him that youre not his friggin maid and if he wants that youll be glad to take your baby and he can hire 1 to do what you do?Thats bullshite.I am so friggin sick of fkg men treating us like were shite!Tell him to fk off and if he dont like the way you clean and what you do around the house then shut up and do it himself!!!I just went thru that bs w my hubby telling me that I am a lazy fkg bitch and that I dont do nuthin and the kids do it all but then when I dont make the kids clean up he tells me I sux as a parent and dont makem do their chores!I told him you cant have it both ways!Gawd I hate men!!! |
| posted by Lexi on 05/27/2008 11:46 AM
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| I lost it this morning when I saw him. My step-son and him both left there dishs in the sink and filled the sink with water. My husband said he doesn't know what made my mood changed. I told him I wasn't happy at all because he told me he'd help me and he never did. I hope to god I made it through his head this morning. I told him this makes me so sick that if they don't stop I'll leave. The hole time I was yelling my husband and stepson were laughing which of course made me more angry. My husband said he'd help me do some things around the house tommarrow. So WE WILL SEE!!!!! I feel like a maid and a nanny more than a wife and mother. |
| posted by Kris on 05/27/2008 06:17 PM
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| wel it sounds like the step son is taking a page from daddys book so to get through to the step son you need to get through to your husband is there anyone in his family that he will listen to besides his mom that you can talk to? when my husband does something i dont like i just threaten to call his grandparents he respects his grandfather and doesnt really like his grandmother so the genarally straightens him out. if that doesnt wokr you should try talking to your stepsons mom about he acting and maybe pack up and leave for a couple days just to see how they respond. |
| posted by anneliese on 05/29/2008 12:22 PM
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