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I have three boys that are ruthless to eachother. My middle son has an anger problem that is out of control.
He has always been favored by his father(who the boys think the world of)but his father doesn't see it..
He can be the best kid a mom could want to this kid who is hateful, punches,slams doors ect...
The oldest son will never impress his dad as much as my middle son and my youngest...My 11yr ol becomes very bitter and mouthy and back-bites and withdrawls..
My 6yr old wants to be daddy's favorite which is competition between them and they fight constantly...any ideas?
What can I do to get my oldest to be closer to his dad?
How can I tell my husband he is starting a huge battle between his boys?
What steps can i take to help my middle child to not be physical when he is angry(he learned it from me). |
| Posted by Rebecca on 04/26/2008 02:46 AM
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First, children learn what they see, so model the behavior you want from them. They are sponges and absorb everything (especially the negative qualities). If your children see you using appropriate anger management, they will learn that as well. If it is too out of control with your son I would seek counseling though. Also, u could request testing from school to see if he would qualify for services there as well.
As far as talking to your husband, I would do that on neutral ground, maybe an evening when things are calm and you are both up for a talk. Don't use words like you do this, or that, they will only come across as if you are attacking him. Rather, just tell him that all the boys love his time and attention and it seems that they are competing for his attention and you are noticing some animosity between them. Maybe try to work some schedule out so they all get to do things individually with dad. this would eliminate the competition and then they could each choose to do something that they enjoy with dad. Then do total family outings as well.
Hope this is helpful,
Jen |
| posted by Jennifer on 04/27/2008 01:17 AM
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