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So my 14 month old daughter just began to cry when I drop her off at the baby sitter's ( I unfortunately have to work part-time). My baby-sitter is a close family friend and she is great at distracted Leila so the crying always stops so after I leave. My question is - Do I try to sneak out? or Do I say good-bye and wave letting her know I am leaving? I feel like sneaking out might be traumatizing for her. One minute I am there, then I am gone. Any ideas or advice?
Posted by Malena on 03/28/2008 02:04 AM

I would definitely let her know that you are leaving. It may be hard to see you go, but, I think you are right about sneaking out being more traumatizing. Say goodbye- but make it quick. If you seem upset, she will think that there is a reason for her to be upset. The bigger deal you make out of it, the worse it will be for her. She needs to see Mommy stay strong :)
posted by Lauren on 03/28/2008 07:47 AM

I was always told to let the child know that your leaving but reassure them that you are coming back and if that don't work sometimes sneaking out works too
posted by judi on 03/30/2008 06:28 PM

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