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| i have two really bad health problems and im the one who takes care of the baby 24-7. is there a way to explain to my boyfriend with out arguing that he needs to help more? |
| Posted by virgie on 03/10/2008 05:30 PM
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| I dont mean this the wrong way so please dont be mad at me, but I also have a health problem and this is why I think this way. I would tell him that if he cares about you and the baby he would help, he knows what is wrong with youand he cant help, then hit the road.please dont be offendedby that remark, but men can be such jerks, mine included. He is better then he use to be but sometimes he can make me so mad. |
| posted by Natasha on 03/10/2008 05:58 PM
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| Sometimes men are just plain scared to help out. Maybe you should ask him if he wants you to show/tell him how to do something first? For example, my husband was terrified to give our daughter a bath before she knew how to sit up on her own, even though we had an infant tub. |
| posted by Keshia on 03/10/2008 11:30 PM
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| that is true, my husband as scareds alot at first, but i told him so was I but someone had to take care of her.We both were in this together. |
| posted by Natasha on 03/11/2008 10:46 AM
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