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This was my post after someone in the group moms and politics withdrew from the group because of attitude recieved from someone else in the room:
"I just wanted to say that there are some people who seem to be looking to argue with people on this site, and it is getting really annoying. Someone withdrew from the group because of another persons attitude. Just because someone doesn't agree with another's views or ideas or beliefs, does not mean they deserve a snippy attitude or response. There are plenty of views I do not agree with, I do not like Obama, but I do not get nasty with other people in this room because they do. I hope you understand where I am coming from with this. We are all here to discuss our views and maybe someone will see things the way you see them and maybe they won't, but it does not warrant attitude. Maybe we should try to treat others with respect and leave our "tudes" out of it."
Someone asked me a question, this was the response I posted:
"In the Huckabee discussion, and there have been more instances where the particular attitude thrower has given attituse in other groups as well. I am not looking to get in an argument with anyone, I just think the attitudes in general need to stop. "
The was the response I got back from the person:
f there is any attitude, (not attituse), it is coming from you.
Debate is the cornerstone of a free society. Apparantely, you are not ready to debate the issues.
The posture that you take is an attitude of unprovoked anger, and a misguided thought process that accuses and misjudges the objective views of someone who is willing to step into the arena and take it to the next level. The next level is honest discourse and debate.
Your vehement attack against me is Wrong, Uncalled for,Malicious, and one sided, lacking in substance.
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| Posted by on 02/24/2008 02:54 PM
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| I am just getting really annoyed with nasty rude people on this site. This is not the first time this person has lashed out at people on the site, and not the first time she belittled someones intelligence. Because of my typo, she tries to belittle me, when she herself missed letter when typing. I guess some people are just nasty individuals with miserable lives, thus they take all of their aggressions out on others. I just needed to vent about this nasty, mean, and downright rude individual. |
| posted by on 02/24/2008 02:58 PM
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| It's the end of Feb. Everyone gets crappy attitudes this time of year. Lets just try to remember that were all stressed out parents facing the same challenges in a judmental world and before we hit the "reply" button just take a minute and think about what we are about to post. |
| posted by Melinda on 02/25/2008 08:34 AM
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| I agree with you completely. Some people can not handle listening to other points of view when it goes against what they believe because I think they do not want others to "follow" or even agree with what you are saying because then it would make them wrong....well maybe I didn't put that in the right term.... To those who want to be mean to those who do not deserve it just remember we are all mothers here and no one wants to get online and have to read bad messages because the day is already stressful and it is not fair to continue that stress, if you can not handle debate then just leave this group alone then i guess! :) |
| posted by nadya on 02/25/2008 09:45 AM
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| Yay yay yay hear here I totlally agree! |
| posted by Lexi on 02/25/2008 11:55 AM
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| She just responded again in the politics room. still mocking my one typo when she made a typo of her own. |
| posted by on 02/25/2008 12:09 PM
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| Plus, she is referring to Obama as "the Lord Obama". That is a little scary, I think Obama should look into a protective order from her, lol. People are so messed in the head. |
| posted by on 02/25/2008 12:33 PM
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Ladies,
I understand that this can become very frustrating, and I would like to call on everybody to avoid making this personal. Please, let's keep this website a friendly place.
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| posted by Vero on 02/25/2008 01:23 PM
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| Sometimes it is very hard to do when someone makes an attack on your intelligence or acts holier than thou. I do not like to be attacked, and will not put up with it. |
| posted by on 02/25/2008 01:26 PM
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| not to fuel the fire but from what i read you didnt name her in your post the fact that she responded to it the way she did proves her guilt in being over agressive.a guilty concience needs no acussing. and sorry if i mispelled any thing i just got back into town from and 8 hour trip and picked up my colicy teething baby. |
| posted by anneliese on 02/25/2008 08:21 PM
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thanks djm and others. i am a live and let live person and this person has gotten on my nerves. i just think she has nothing better to do. funny b/c i was not even talking about politics. i don't appreciate being attacked about something i did for a living for almost 20 years. i really have very little to do with politics.
vero, i think we are all trying to keep this as positive as possible. i withdrew from the group b/c i have read posts from this person before and saw where she was attempting to take my conversation. i am not going to go there with anyone. i have too much going on in my life.
some are sicker than others as they say in twelve step progams. no offense but that last line was my need to vent.......
thanks again djm! |
| posted by mom on 02/25/2008 08:59 PM
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