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i want another but i don't like my husband. so we'll see if i ever actual do have another one. i don't want to have another baby in an iffy relationship. does anybody feel me?
Posted by Cristina on 08/24/2007 08:25 PM

I understand what you mean. My sis had another baby as a way to fix her marriage, it didn't work and now they are divorced. She is happier without him and he is still a great father to their children. But if you aren't happy don't have another baby until you are, one way or another.
posted by Angela on 08/24/2007 09:31 PM

Have you tried getting help. It sounds as if your husband has done something that must have hurt you. Most women don't make statements that they don't like their husbands unless something has happened. Even if there is no hope for your marriage ( But I do believe there is) you will want to work these issues out before it has had to much time to grow. You will just be taking these problems with you right into your next relationship. In my marriage I didn't like my husband for a some time until I realized that it had less to do with him and more to do with how I felt about myself. I didn't feel like I was loved or appratiated. That is some way I wasn't worth it. Those issues came out in hate for my husband. When I stopped worring about him and focused on making myself whole my marriage got so better. If you don't like him, he knows it and how would you act in his shoes. I don't mean to preach at you I just don't want you to think because your marriage is bad then divorce is the answer. Think of your child. My parents divorce when i was 13 and I haven't been the same since. But you know what neither has my mom and dad. If there is abuse then the best thing is to get out but when there isn't work on it. About the baby thing, I wouldn't have another until things are better. I pressed my husband into the second and I suffered for it for a long time. And so did my children. God Bless you and your family. Can I pray for you?
posted by Jessica on 09/18/2007 08:46 AM

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