Hi-I am having an issue with my 5 y/o son and I have run out of solutions.

My son Colby has been really struggling with listening. We have noticed it at home and hockey practice however now it is starting to become a problem in school as well. We received a note home today from his teacher stating he is not listening and not following class room rules, shouting out answers, talking when he shouldn't be and in her words being very disruptive. His teacher did say that academically he is doing great which is good to hear but his behavior is still an issue. We have tried taking things away such as electronics, tv time and it doesn't seem to phase him. When his father and I try to talk to him about things and why he is not following the rules the only response we get is "I don't know" We decided today that we would take all his toys and put them in the basement and told him he needed to earn them back. Also, we told him no tv or games. I know every parent says this, but I know Colby is good boy and he can absolutely do better but for whatever reason he is having a really hard time lately.

Any suggestions on ANYTHING we can do to help him through this?

Sorry to hear the struggle.Had similar issues with my 5y old boy.

As a start you absolutely should amke sure that his hearing is ok. Get an audiology test done. At least get that out of the way. If there is an issue with his hearing, at list you know where tostart.

Then, is there anything in his environment that demonstrates that behavior: mother not listening to his father or vice versa? May be the bigger boys at school or daycare who domthis an dhe wants to emulate.

Most importantly, could it be that HE is not listened to, when he has something to say. I would focus on that: Show him the positive impact of being fully and uniquely listened to. Make him feel how good it is to have your full attention when he is talking. When he speaks, paz full attention, look at him, dont interrupt, encourage him to say more, negotiate what he wants and find a poistive bright outcome for him. Then gently (no lecturing) explain that this works both ways.

Good luck.

Let us know how you progress :)

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