I have a13 year old daughter that cuts I take her to counceling but she has yet to find a way to deal with things. I'm looking for parents who have gone through similar issues and how you cope with it. I always try and talk with her and I never yell at her I always tell her I love her but I'm at the end of my rope I feel like I'm going to have a break down soon. To top it all off I have one soon who has autism and two step children who live with us full time with adhd.