im a stay at home mom of 5 kids, 2 are mine a boy and a girl ages 4 & 2, and my boyfriends 3 girls ages 9,6,3. his 3 girls have issues due to their shitty mom who didnt take care of them. he travels so 5 days a week every week i am alone with them, we have been dating a little over a year and he tells me i have bare bones responsibility taking care of them. i have no one to talk to, we moved here from ct 5 months ago and i have no one to babysit or help me with the kids at all. he comes home and complains that the house is messy and its all on me, i should be able to keep the house clean with 5 kids and a puppy who isnt house broken yet, everything i do is wrong and after a day of being home hes saying how much he hates being home yet im here 24/7 and never get to leave the house alone. when he is home he sits and does whstever on his phone he doesnt help with the kids i unpack and pack his bag for his trip and when its dinner tie he sits at the table and waits for me to serve him and all the kids, everyone is almost finished by the time i get to sit and eat. he makes fun of me and calls me stupid for not being up on current events and tells me he only talks to me about regular stuff cuz im not as well rounded as he thought i was. he hasnt kissed me since december and wont tell me why. he said i started off a susan b anthony and now im like a lack luster penny thats been burried underground for years. he calls me names all the time, he has another woman sending gifts to our house and talking to him all the time, he says im not allowed to ask questions because everything is paid for me so nothing is my business. he barely speaks to me and wants me to handle things then bitches at me for trying to handle things so that he doesnt have to cuz i dont do things like him. he says were so different and how did we end up together, he says im only here cuz i won a coin toss and tells other people that. when we starts with me i dont want to take care of the kids or clean the house i want to ball up and cry.