I can't be the only one here married to a pilot.....

I am posting a message because my daughter is 20 months old now and has begun the terrible two's. My husband just came home yesterday from being away for a week and half. My daughter was happy to see him at first, then went right into "brat" mode. No eating, temper tantrums over everything, etc.

She continued her brattiness this morning beginning at 5am. If I could have dropped her off at day care at 5:30 this morning, I would have!

She does fine when he leaves, is well behaved while he is gone, then AWFUL when he gets home!  Any suggestions on how to make the transition smoother when he returns?