So I am currently a stay at home mom.  My husband workes as a caregiver about 40 hrs a week.  He spends little time with the children and mostly lays in the bedroom watching tv and drinking but that is not so much the issue.

My issue is that when I was working 40 hrs a week and he was taking care of our son only he would wake up late or get him up and doze on the couch.  We had a system to where we would each have a weekend day off so we would each have a day to recharge.  I am at home with 2 now one 6 months and our son is three.  I am lucky to get an hour because supposidly I don't really work.