hello moms,am afirst time mom of 21 months old twins b/g,recently the've been fighting all day,lots of crying and screaming all day long,it's driving me crazy,they whine alot,the boy never did that b4 but my girl was always hard since day 1,but now since they wake up till bed time i feel i just try to console them or seperating fights"sometimes i let them without interfering unless hitting is hard",am so exhausted my husband is barely home and actually when he is they get attached to him more and the screaming increase!!i have no clue what to do is this a phase?i think my daughter passed all terrible phases so far,plz help,am trying to study to go back to collage but obviously no time which is even more frustrating

yes they nap 2.5 hours during the day,they do have routine and they know what will happen the moment they get up,breakfast,readingbooks singing then they have snack and milk,then we watch alphabets on tv and sing after them, till their lunch and afternoon nap,i think u r right they need a change maybe in the routine,the thing is we r new here no  grandparents or relatives around to go to,so we mainly go to park or play areas,i wouldnt take them alone thu,my daughter once threw ahuge tantrum in aplay ground while all other children are playing,my hubby had to watch our boy while i tried to calm her down,we ended up heading home,that is why i dont think i can handle going alone with them,they are starting to get bored at the morning singing and throw themselves on the ground,what other activities u suggest?

thank u very much,i tried mega block they entertain them for a while,i'll try other things as well,god bless u and your children