Hello!

I've been the wife of a musician for about 10 years.  Can't say it's been easy, but it's nice to know there's a group out there to support other wives and significant others.  For those who've been together for many years, please share advice for what helps you stay devoted.  There are times where I feel like I am reaching the end of the line, where I am tired of being alone one more night.  Other times, I don't seem to mind it so much.  I don't think it will get any better--right now husband comes home 3 or 4 in the morning every day.  We have a child, a house and other misc bills, so at times I feel like I am stuck.  Also, I am the product of a divorce and hate what it does to the children, so I am not sure about going our separate ways.  He is a loving father and takes care of things at home.  However, I cannot believe that lonely nights and weekends where he catches up on sleep is what is in store for the rest of my life.  Any advice is appreciated.