Well, I am 40. I have a daughter going to college and two in daipers (2 & 11 months) I really had a much easier time with my younger ones. There is something to be said about life experience. I was better at taking care of myself, much more into learning about my pregnancy.
I had two miscarriages before having my younger ones...That was tough, it made me start thinking about everything that could go wrong...There are test you could take to look at your odds, none will give you definitive answers...
Take care of yourself, start eating and exercising now before you get pregnant, take your folic acid, sleep etc...
True Tara I am in good shape etc so that isnt a worry to me it just thioese stupid statistics u read about once u turn 35. But after talking to u all I feel sooooooooooooo much less scared. Thanks !