Not sure were in upstate new york you are. My name is Hope and I have a five yr old boy and a two and a half year old girl. I know what it was like to have nobody around you with kids and needing someone to talk to.
Where abouts in NY i am in the Hudson Valley i have a 9 month old and have the same problem i met a few moms but none with kids my sons age...Sarah also (popular name )
i know exactly where you are i pass Nichols on 17 when i visit family in Buffalo, thats pretty far away...i even joined a moms meetup group and i still am having trouble connecting with other moms