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Hello, get him diagnosed. We have a daughter that sounds just like your boy, she turns 3 in Sept. She is very smart and counts in three different languages since she was 2.. She was diagnosed @ 18 months and has had early intervention ever since. My wife has done a great deal of research on this disorder and is looking to open up a local Autistic group to inform parents on the signs and how to counter act it with special teachings. Good luck with everything.. Drop us a line anytime. Dale