Before I even agreed to date my Bf I made it very clear that in order for our relationship to work that I would have to feel connected to him and feel that I hold value and relevance in his life. He tours and is on the road 23 days out of the month AND I live in GA and he "lives" in LA. We text at least once a day and talk on the phone if internet is not an option..we skype at least 3 times a week for 20 minutes to an hour. One thing we have recently begun to do is Skype each other to fall asleep. We lay there and talk to the computer screen until we fall asleep. We also Skype and watch each other get ready for work or his show, he watches me make coffee and then we have coffee together and I watch him shave and get ready for the show as I lay in bed to go to sleep. It's only 15 minutes and no it's not that exciting but it allows both of us to feel connected to each other and we really feel closer and connected. My man does not like to talk on the phone and Skype has really allowed our relationship to grow. Love and light...ang |
