I have been with my husband for three years and the groupies don't get any easier to handle. We have children and I can't go see him play like I always did, I am at home with the baby.

A lot of times I wish he would have gone farther in his music, he is super talented. I get so tired of the same women every weekend showing up at all the local bars. To me, it isn't worth the money or the trouble it causes if he isn't going to purseau something bigger. I know there will be groupies then, but not at every venue on every weekend.

When I am able to attend, I am pointed at and talked about. I just feel like it is a double life my husband leads and I am no longer a part of it. I don't want to go psycho on the women looking at my husbands crotch all night with their clothes falling off, but doing it right in front of me is really just hard on me. It makes me mad at my husband...anyone else have this problem?

I feel your pain.  I have been dealing with this for 4 years.  I have one that almost destroyed my marriage by texting and sending innapropriate facebook pics and messages to him and refuses to stay away. It's all I can do not to beat the living daylights out of her.  Although she is blocked from his phone and computer and I threatened to whoop her if I saw her, now she still shows up for gigs when she knows I am stuck at home with his kid and I'm left looking like an idiot.  I too get the looks, whispering and finger pointing from other band members girlfriends.  I was the last to know about her motives.  And he tells me she has the right to go where she chooses and I shouldn't concern myself with her.  I wish I could tell you the right way to deal with it or that it will end but I'm just as frustrated.  I joined a gym recently and it feels better to take all the hate and violent feelings out on something positive.