Hi, I am a musician's girlfriend...we live together... just came to this group to find other women probably going through similar situations.. especially financially.. 

I had a job that i had to leave due to his unpredictable schedule and pay.. I have an 8 month old that I had to stay home with and now am totally unhappy..... bills are paid, whenever.. 

But as long as he plays, he doesn't care who he hurts, how I feel, what bills get paid... 

Are other musicians the same?