i dont really consider myself young anymore (23) but i can realte because i got pregnant at 17 and had my first child at 18. i am now a happy mom of two great boys. it was hard for me at first i was still wanting to go out and have a good time but the thought of having someone else take care of my child when i was perfectly able changed how i saw things. i couldnt depend on anyone anymore and needed to take responsibility. not saying anyone here doesnt. dont get me wrong i like to go out shopping and what have you but the night life just isnt what it was all cracked up to be anymore. i guess it was almost a phase that i just had to sit through until it passed. its a lot cheeper to buy the drink mix and put on your fav dance cd. it is also better to just have your boyfriend/husband there without all the jealousy drama that a club can bring. it will also help your relationship i believe.