Hey! Im lexi, and im kind of new to this..But I need some advice since i know most teen moms have been through this. A lot of my friends dont want to hangout anymore since i can't party or anything. I know it's better for me not to be around those kind of people, but i really miss having friends around. It's also hard since i don't even talk to her biological dad. So i pretty much do everything myself. I mean I have a boyfriend that has been with me since i was 6 months pregnant. But I dont want him to do anything since he's not the biological dad.

HEY HOW ARE U I HAVE NOT BEEN ON THIS WEBSITE IN A LONG TIME BUT I SAW THI ON MY EMAIL. AND I HAD TTO RESPOND :), I UNDERSTAND WAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH CUZ IM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING. YOU SHOULD TRY TO MAKE FRIENDS U HAVE THINGS IN COMMON WITH YOU LIKE WHO PEOPLE WHO HAVE KIDS.

Hey i know what you mean, i don't hang out with alot of my "old" friends since i had kids, only a select few (best friends) :D that will hang out with me and my children, it's deff, rough though, but i think if your boyfriend has been with you since you were 6months pregnant he should help with the baby, he knew what he was getting into dating someone who is pregnant, i know somebody who started dating someone who was pregnant and he treats her kid just like his, she is now 4 and his biological is 6. If he loves you and your child he shouldn't mind helping out once in a while....

Hey i know what you mean, i don't hang out with alot of my "old" friends since i had kids, only a select few (best friends) :D that will hang out with me and my children, it's deff, rough though, but i think if your boyfriend has been with you since you were 6months pregnant he should help with the baby, he knew what he was getting into dating someone who is pregnant, i know somebody who started dating someone who was pregnant and he treats her kid just like his, she is now 4 and his biological is 6. If he loves you and your child he shouldn't mind helping out once in a while....

The thing with making new friends is noone wants to deal with a 19 year old with a kid.  It's extremely hard because I'll talk to people and then they find out I can't go out and party and then they want nothing to do with me. Yeah! i wish my boyfriend would do a little more when it comes to helping with the baby. But I guess I cant force him to do anything. It just makes it more difficult since her biological dad doesnt do anything to help. But thanks for the help :) Every bit of advice helps.

hey lexi i must say i will be your friend. matter of fact ill add you if you like. when it comes to your boyfriend im only saying from experiences in my life that if he is not willing to volunteer its going to be hard because you are going to need someone who looks at that little girl as their own and if they dont it will only bring bickering and arguing. im not saying he does nothing  i dont know you but he should volunteer without giving any hassels or it will be hard for you.