Okay I don't know where to begin! Me and my husband have known each other for 5 years total and have been married for almost two years, so we know each other pretty well! Well ever since our son was born, mind you we were not married when he was born, anyways when it was tax time he always claimed our son because we heard we would get more back, so I was all for that, well then we got our money back, which I only got about $300 back and he got let's just say he paid all off ALL his debt, well I never saw a penny of that money! I was really concerned because he is our son and I figured since we were planning to get married and plan a life together that it would be our money and we could open a account and share that account that way we both have access to that account, for mainly emergencies is what I was thinking.

Well he is against getting a account opened together, (as if he doesn't trust me), and we have been currently talking about this years taxes and how we are going to save our money and buy a house, that is fine by me, but when I bring up having to pay regular everyday bills, I ask him if I could maybe get a good portion of that too pay some of my bills off with and he told me that I can have the money that I get back from my work, which is again only if I'm lucky maybe $300. I don't know what to do or say, I am so pissed that when he ask me what I was planning on doing with the money I just ignore him because I already know his answer and I know he isn't going to agree with me in anything!

I guess I feel that he doesn't trust me and I feel that I am getting jipped on money!!!

Feedback would be great!!!

Kelly Avila