Here is one of the best ideas my son's pediatrician ever gave me. He was 9 months old at the time and would wake up twice at night for the bottle, every other night I could not put him back to sleep till seven in the morning. (and he'd get up about 4). She suggested to wait for 10 minutes before going into the room. Two nights after I was so exhausted I put a pillow over my head and kept watching the clock. In about 6 minutes he went back to sleep. The same week I put him in his crib without rocking him to sleep and after 10 minutes of fussing he fell asleep.
To be clear we tried "no tears" approach for two weeks and it was almost successful but he got sick and we had to stop the training. He was around 6 months old then.
Around 8 months we tried "cry-it-out" technique, I could not do it. My heart was breaking!
So yes, every baby is special and unique, keep it CALM, and you'll get there. You and I did learn to sleep through the night somehow, right? |