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waste of time?

So i was concidering going back to work just so my daughter could have more , than I thought of all the more i already give her. She is safest in my house I control what i think is apropreate for her to learn . She is inloved with people that I feel will leave only possitive impressions on her . Pluss most people only make min. wages and it would litterly take my whole check to pay for child care .Unless I have a better reason like my husband gets cut off or something is working at this stage a waste of my time?

Posted by mariah on 07/06/2010 08:54 PM

 

Children are so precious to me and they are gift from God.  So make our time useful being with them.  Mold them into a person you desire.  If money and waste of time terrribly disturbed you, I tell you be peace with yourself telling yourself that you will take care of your child and you can do it with minimum income from your husband.  Work out your finance carefully. You will get by.  Your friends will envy you.  However, if opportunities arises, where you can get some income just grab it but dont neglect your child.  Manage your time properly and at the same time think creatively how to generate income which you will not leave your child alone the whole day. The above said is based on my experience.  With God, I am sure that I am well taken care by Him.  God knows your heart better than me or anyone else.  Just pray and trust God to direct you. 

 

posted by Jane on 07/07/2010 04:21 AM

Your child will never know that she didn't have more material things when she was so young, however, she will always remember that she had plenty of love and mommy's time when she gets older. It's such a short time in the scheme of things, if you can, you should stay home and enjoy it. It's amazing what you find out that you can do without, and how your budget can stretch and find ways to get things done. Good luck!

posted by Bekki on 07/10/2010 10:50 PM

 
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