the first thing i would ask you is how old he is...but then i rememered that some men simply never grow up, something i learned the hard way! you will know when enough is enough, i know b/c i learned the hard way! with me, i figured i could do bad all by myself. it was like he was there but he wasn't. the way i figured it, it would be 1 less "child" to take care of, and i would get more assistance with it just being me and the children. sure, i would be sad for a while, but eventually, i would get over it! especially with the children to distract me and keep me company. it only made sense to me. nodody to make me cry, nobody to argue with, and the worst was someone who should have been helping yet having to do everything myself. it was like having an older special needs child. :O what i did was literally make a list of pro's and con's then weighed them out. i had many more con's than pro's...so i think you know what i did, but that's just what i did, not advice for you. |
