I have a really great friend that takes my daughter once a week, for about 2-3 hours. We have never had many issues. She is unappy in her marrage and is cheating on him.  She is writting to him and they met once.  She asked if I lie for her and buy something for him and pay me back kinda thing. She hinted that we wanted to watch her child.  I said that I really not comfortable with this and she keeps asking and hinting and I am feeling uncomfortable.  I don't want to risk our friendship, I also feel like if she doean't something while my child is there, then its over. But, I don't want let it get that far.  Any thoughts...

I know you don't really want to hurt the relationship yall have built but you have to take into consideration about your daughter being around this kind of emotions. I'm not sure how long yall have been friends or how old her daughter is but I would just simply ask her to stop asking for you to lie for her. It's not healthy for you or your own family. It causes a lot of stress on you to make sure your making the right choice for her. I choose not to be around "drama" people. You have to live your own life & make yourself and your family happy first. Just remember, true friends won't ask you to be part of a falty life.

I really hope this helps some. Good luck...