hi my name is jaimie and im a 23 year old mom of one daughter who is going to b 4 next month. my daughter is very difficult duw to have adhd, disruptive behavior disorder, and speech apraxia. right now i am looking for any and all advise on forms of punishments that will work for her as nothing we have tried so far has worked on her. i am open to all ideas except forms of abuse like spankings as we have tired time outs with holding things, but nothing works because she lives in the moment and cant see the big picture around her yet. please help me as i am very stressed and dont know how much more i can take. thank you

jaimie