I have been married for 14 years and always had a cordial relation with my mother in law, but as soon as we decided to relocate to usa my mother in law "decided" "be" with us!!! that was very difficult period she was with us for 1 year until my husband told her that she had to leave to our country. She left but she still visit us for 3 or 4 months twice a year and she always "past her bill to me" you know...she "say things" and always is like a "pain in the neck" her "visits".