Hi Katelin,
I am a mom of a three year old boy and I've gone through similar behavior with my son. I thought he was too yound when I started putting him on a "naughty spot" but he understood it and I still use it to this day. Whenever he did something like you mentioned, I put him on the bottom step of my stairs. this was my and continues to be his "spot." I sit him there for as long as he is old. At first he will probably get up but you just have to keep sitting him back down on it. Then you walk away and don't give him any attention. When his time is up you get down to his eye level and in a stern voice you explain why you put him there. Then you tell them, "Now say 'sorry Mommy'". Even if they don't understand every word, they get the jist. Then you ask for a hug and you say "I still love you." It's hard the first few times you do it, but it has had a big impact on controlling my son's behavior. you can even threaten them with it and it works most of the time. This is all from Nanny 911. My friend used it and recommended that I try it. I hope you find some relief. Good luck! |