I don't remember my exact post but I posted about my hubby not wanting me to breastfeed and how he likes swinging and I don't, I am a mom of 7 with my youngest being almost 4 months old. Anyway, you responded to me and i have lost your email, STUPID YAHOO!!! Please email me again. Would love to chat with you more, Thanks so much Julie

Hey Julie. This is my opinion. You can't always please your husband. Sometimes you need to do things that make you happy. I don't really understand the swinging or threesome thing. You're saying it's okay to cheat as long as I'm there. Because the reality is it doesn't make your relationship more exciting. The whole purpose is to sleep with that other man or woman. Cheating.....Your husband says you don't have to if you don't want to but then gets mad when you say no. He pretends like he's giving you a choice. It's reverse psychology. My husband knows how I feel about cheating and would never ask. But, there has been things he's wanted me to do that I have felt strongly about. I would say no and explain why I didn't want to do it. I don't budge not even a little on it. Your husband may get mad. If he wants to cheat on you he is going to do it anyway, with or without your permission. Don't let him drag you down with him. You have to think about your children and yourself. Can the swinging or threesome hurt them in the long run? Can you catch a disease? If my kids found out how would this affect them? Your husband is thinking about himself. Sometimes in marriage you have to compromise, doing things you don't necessarily like to make things work. But, you have decide what benefits the.....relationship......not just one person in the relationship. Remember your kids are also apart of your relationship. I hope this helps.  

i just read this and i don't know if i previously responded. i was in the same situation though so let's chat if you like! :)

hey julie i am the one how emailed you i just resent the email and mine is aaf.rsd@gmail.com so add me as a contact or look in your spam if you dont see it my AIM is also the same as my email look foward to hearing from you.