WELL WHERE SHOULD I START? I HAVE THREE KIDS. THREE BOYS. ONE IS SPECIAL NEEDS AND THE OTHER , WELL THEY ARE MY BOYS WHO DRIVE ME CRAZY. MOST OF THE TIME I HAVE TO YELL SO THEY CAN LISTEN TO ME. I CLEAN ALL AND EVERY DAY. WHEN I CLEAN ONE DAY A COUPLE OF HOURS IT IS A DISASTER. THE BIGGEST ONE IS MY FIANCE. I WASH DISHES AND CLEAN BEFORE I GO TO BED. I WAKE UP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO CHECK UP ON MY LITTLE ONE. I SEE DISHES STILL IN THE SINK WRAPPERS ALL ON THE COUNTER CLOTHES ON THE FLOOR. I'M TIRED OF CLEANING UP AFTER EVERYONE. I DON'T MAKE A MESS. BUT IF I DO NOONE WILL CLEAN UP MY MESS. SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE A FREAKIN MAID HERE. NOW I WOULD LOVE TO GO ON A VACATION. BUT SINCE I GET A MONTHLY CHECK FOR MY SON I CAN'T AFFORD IT. I AHVEN'T WORKED IN TW YEARS. SO I DON'T GET A TAX CHECK. MY FIANCE WORKED AND HE BOUGHT HIS VACATION. HE TOLD ME HE WOULD OF BOUGHT MINE BUT I SAID NO. HE  HAD TO PAY A LOT OF THINGS AND MOST OF IT WAS EXPENSIVE. NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO AS FOR A VACATION FOR MYSELF. CAN SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE ON MY KIDS LISTENING TO ME AND A GOOD WAY TO SPEND TIME FOR MYSELF WITH OUT MONEY? ECONOMY IS REALLY BAD. I WOULD LOVE TO GO HORSEBACK RIDING BUT THAT IS MONEY. AND I LIVE NEAR ALL HORSE FARMS.

There are so many things you could do for your self without having to spend money. Go for a walk, walk around the mall, go to the library.. etc.. Just to get out and get some time to yourself.. About the kids listening i dont know.. Mine are 4 and 7 and don't listen.