Megan,
You're going to be just fine. The important thing for you to do is surround yourself with people who love you. It'll be hard at first because you're used to having him in the house and doing things together. But, you'll get used to him being gone and you'll make the necessary adjustments.
From experience (i've been in this boat for almost 8 years), I'd suggest that you use this time as "you" time. Go out with girlfriends. Go to museums. Start a book you've been meaning to read...start writing.
Keep a journal. You may experience a range of emotions...sometimes when you dont have anyone to talk to, writing helps.
Dont buy into the rumors that everyone touring husband is a cheating husband. Its not true. Be secure in what you and your husband have and dont waiver. Express whatever concerns you have that arise, but dont become whiny. If you do see an inappropriate something on the part of a groupie, dont become a jealous whacko! :)!
Try as hard as you can to be supportive, but make sure you're honest about everything. If he calls and asks if everything is ok, if its not tell him. My point? Dont sugarcoat things, but dont make things extra dramatic. If this is his first time out on the road he may resent you for making him feel bad about being out. Communication, honest communication, throughout the ordeal will aid in keeping a good balance.
Good luck! I'm always available for chatting... |
