I just had our 7th child.  It's a yours, mine and ours deal  I am a sahm with my 19yr, 17yr, 11yr, 3yr and 12 week old kids. My 21yr old and 18yr old step children do not live with us.  My vent is I wanted to sit for a friend of mine, who is actually my stepsons friend, so I tell her I want to sit for her and we get things ready, now it is about a week or 2 before she goes back to work, and hubby says no.  I am ready to scream!!!! First, she has to be to work around 4:30am so he says not to that, and she would be home around 4-4:30pm.  I have thought about just telling her Brian says no, but that is so humiliating, sorry I can't watch her for you my daddy says no, and at the last minute!!!! I am sick to my stomach thinking of having to talk to her today but I don't want to wait and let it get closer to when she has to go back...  My other vent about hubby is he doesn't want me to nurse our baby.  I wanted to nurse for a year and he is into swinging and threesomes, and we can't while I nurse. He doesn't force me into it, I just don't say no because I will hear little comments forever.  This makes him sound HORRIBLE and controlling.  He isn't really, he just says if you really don't want to, then I get comments that really hurt my feelings. Ok so maybe he is.  Now that I sit here and type this and think oh yeah and he does ...  However, there is NNNNNOOOOO way we could afford being divorced.  I wouldn't be able to stay at home, which is VERY important to me and he couldn't afford rent and our mortgage and child support, which would put him in jail and take him away from our boys, who ADORE him.  ok E-vent over, if anyone has a hubby like this and wants to talk more, please email me, I need a friend that I can talk to about ANYTHING. baby6in06@yahoo.com Thanks for reading Julie 

Anyone got one of these!!!