My name is Jennie and I was hoping to get soem advice from some of you ladies. It is nice to get some advice from people who don't rreally know you very well, and see what they have to say.

So here is a quick version of what is going on: I am a mother of 3 children ages 5, 3 and 1. I have asked my husband to move out because I am just not happy. I am hoping to get things back with him, but I feel there is nothing left for me to give. Some people have told me just to shut my mouth and just deal, which I have done, but then all we do is fight. Then other people say do what is best for me and the kids. I feel awful because he is hurt, but what do I do?